"Graduate Student Shelby McIlheran “I got a text- I didn’t even get a call- that said, ‘Hey, I’m in the hospital, just to let you know.’ I was just like, ‘Okay,’ and finished eating my Poptart. It was the week before spring finals my freshman year. She actually would disappear before this, during the year, and I’d always make sure I had an alibi in case she didn’t come back.”"